Friday, August 12, 2011

What should I do? ** 10 pts for most explained answer*?

Hi knittingqueen22, this sort of thing is best sorted out somewhere quiet, maybe you could get him to walk with you somewhere peaceful. As you walk you talk, and of course the subject you talk about is how you feel about him, and how does he feel about a proper relationship. That's the best way for you to put it out there. Hopefully you will hear the answer you want to hear, but of course there are no guarantees on this. He said he loves you as a sister, so maybe he'll love you as a friend. That is a good sign. You know each other pretty well and I'm sure if he doesn't want your friendship to move upwards, then I'm sure he will let you down lightly. But I see no reason why he wouldn't want a friend relationship for that is practically what you have at the moment. And it possibly may lead to something more a little later on. Anyway that's the best way to find out how he feels about you. Don't pay too much attention to what other people say. You know him better than any of them, and when they say you will have a future together, don't take any notice of that, how could they ever know that. You've known him on and off for quite a while, I should think you could read him like a book, but obviously you're not certain so have a chat with him, I always think a chat like this is better when you're walking together. You can say things without looking at him, just talking whilst looking in front of you almost like talking to yourself, there's less pressure on you and him. But I'm hoping you can get him on your side, you want him more than he is right now so I hope after the chat that you are a happy girl. If he does accept your offer then ask him to seal it with a kiss. I wish you happiness.

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