Gossip,sex and wild behavior? should i leave my freaky church?

So I'm a saved christian woman. I believe in God and strive to live my life according to his will each day. I'm new in town so I joined a church about three months back here. At first the church was great. I was making friends and I truly felt like these people care about me. As time went by I began to get involved in the ministry. Helping where I could. Sometimes during the day as well. There is a kitchen in the church where all the married woman sit. I went to join them for the day while they worked and was shocked to discover how much they can gossip! Everyone knew everyone's business and they were openly gossiping about people who were not in the kitchen. Next incident was when the guys started chatting to me. I thought well they are christian so why not get to know them. As soon as I opened up my home to these church people they were in my business 24-7. showing up unannounced and stalking me on facebook, texts and phone calls. There were about 4 guys that were bothering me. It annoyed me sooo much. The next incident was at a Monday night prayer meeting. The Pastor was dancing on stage as if he was in a club! And then at the end of the service he made us all lay on the floor on our backs with our hands stretched upwards. He told us to pray and honor him. That for me felt really unscriptural. After that I ended up meeting a guy that I really thought would make a good partner. He turned out to be on a worse level of psychotic. Stalked me at my home and at church and as we spoke I found that he has a criminal record and at one point he started flirting with me. Saying stuff like I'm so attracted to you and that God will forgive us if we were to have sex by mistake. He was obsessive and possessive when we barely knew each other! I was so freaked out. The final straw for me was when I was at a church barbecue. I sat with the wife of our Pastor while we waited for the men to grill the meat. After about half an hour the food was ready. One of those same gossips from the kitchen came with meat and rolls on a plate for Pastors wife. What shocked me was the fact that this woman bent down on her knees as she gave Pastors wife the food. Its like everyone here worships the Pastors. Like blind sheep. The congregation is so corrupted. High School kids are dating, got kids. Some of the members hang out at taverns too. Is it me or is this a freaky church? Should I leave? Thanks in advance.