Am I crazy or is my girlfriend crazy?

I think your best bet is to actually have proof on a piece of paper to show her that you give a ****..yes it seems a bit crazy...but print out your phone records or texts from while she was gone and show that you obviously cared and what not...and you need to explain to her gifts and stuff arnt the main thing in a relationship...she seems like a materialistic person and if she can't seem to understand you don't have all the money in the world...it will more than likely not work...it'd be different if you spent all your money on stupid **** and didn't bother to do anything with her but that doesn't seem like the case...if you two figure stuff out..maybe make her things once in awhile or pick her flowers...i dont know...its just a suggestion but shes definately the one going over board...not you